Hey,
I’m Keke

How I Got Here
I’m number 4 to 17 kids. And no, that’s not a typo.
Growing up as the middle child in a large family taught me a lot about being navigating relationships, asking for help, and figuring things out on my own. But it didn’t prepare me for everything about adulting.
So, I created the resource I wish I had.
Welcome to Restart with Keke💋
What I Actually Do
I’ve worked with children and families in just about every capacity you can imagine:
Professional roles:
- Stem Tutor
- Doula
- Nanny
- MDE/Highscope Researcher
- Preschool Teacher
- Director
- Nanny
- Disability Specialist for children 0-5 (current role)
Community work:
- Parenting Workshops
- Family Support Programming
- Early Intervention Services
- Community Gardener
Right now, I work as a Preschool Director, supporting teachers, young children, and their families. I help families navigate systems, advocate for their children, and build the skills they need to thrive.
Here’s the thing: all my training in child development, all my professional experience supporting families, and all those years being a big sister to 13 siblings… somehow none of it came with a manual for my own adulting.
Nobody taught me how to buy a bra that fits, budgeting while broke, maintaining friendships as an adult, recognizing relationship red flags, or starting a homestead journey on a budget.
I had to figure it all out through trial, error, and a lot of YouTube university and googling in incognito mode.


What to Expect from RWK
Every Thursday, I publish post about topics like:
Personal Care & Confidence
Hair care, skincare, clothing, hygiene—the basics nobody teaches
Money & Career
Budgeting, retirement planning, workplace navigation, career transitions
Social Life & Community
Making friends as an adult, networking, setting boundaries, navigating politics
Healthy Relationships
Dating, communication, red flags, building partnerships that work
Sustainable Living
Plant-based eating, homesteading on a budget, eco-friendly choices
Plus:
- Quick tips on TikTok: @restartwithkeke
- Lives on TikTok: look for a glowing red circle around my profile picture 
- Behind-the-scenes on Instagram: @restartwithkeke
- Monthly deep-dives in my newsletter
- Community conversations in the comments
Questions People Ask Me

Q: Are you a licensed therapist or counselor?
No, and I never claim to be. I have a doctorate in early childhood education and professional experience in child development and family systems, but I’m not a licensed mental health professional. If you need therapy, please seek a qualified professional. I’m here for practical life advice, not clinical support.
Q: Why should I trust your advice?
You shouldn’t trust anyone blindly—including me. I always cite my sources when I’m sharing research or expert information. When I’m sharing personal experience, I’m clear about that. My goal is to give you information and perspectives so you can make informed decisions for your own life.
Q: Do you make money from this blog?
Currently, no. This is a passion project. In the future, I may add affiliate links (where I get a small commission if you purchase something I recommend) or digital products (like guides or templates). I’ll always be transparent about any monetization.
Q: Can you give me personal advice about my situation?
While I love engaging in the comments, I can’t provide personalized advice for individual situations—that’s outside my scope and wouldn’t be responsible. But feel free to suggest topics you’d like me to cover in future posts!
“We must restore the village mentality, it takes more than parents and teachers. It takes the entire community to raise a child to greatness.”
— Dr. Jawanza Kunjufu

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